why do we evan try to date when we are not ready to deal with the break ups and all the responsibilty that comes with is some people find the right person the first time and some of us dont and we spend the morjotiy of our time looking for some one to be with i just recelnty helped one of my best friend that had his feoncee break up with him and i see that people fall in love but why do it when you arnt really in love with that person because someone allways winds up getting hurt over it belive me i know kuz one of my x's had sex with another girl while we were dating and i know that it hurts and u see a lot of peoople going through this and i know that i stop and look back on everything that happened and what went wrong its like we were never made for each other so what im trying to say is get to know the person befor u start dating them kuz in the end it could mess up ur friendship with that person so next time tank befor you act please thanks