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      CommentAuthorzobawm
    • CommentTimeNov 15th 2007
     
    Let's talk about Gay Marriage out here.

    Is it acceptible being a Christian? or do you say its okay as long as one agrees? give your views and comments.

    thank you

    mang guite
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    ummm...well i dont hate them...but i cant agree with them bcuz its a sin to be gay or a lesbian. mi mom said that God made man to "go forth and multiply", but if ur gay u cant...so i dont hate them, but i cant agree with them
    • CommentAuthoregs
    • CommentTimeNov 15th 2007
     
    Homosexuality is sin!!!

    We can quote the Old Testament Scriptures like…

    Leviticus 18:22 that says, “Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman, that is detestable.” or
    Leviticus 20:13 that says, “If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable…”

    And we can quote the New Testament Scriptures like…

    I Timothy 1:9-11 says, “We know that the law is good if one uses it properly. We also know that law is made not for the righteous but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious; for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers, for adulterers and perverts, (for fornicators and sodomites (male homosexuals) - NKJV) for slave traders, liars and perjurers—and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine that conforms to the glorious gospel of the blessed God which he entrusted to me.” or

    I Corinthians 6:9 which reads “Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kindness of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexual offenders, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor the greedy or covetous, nor the drunkards, nor slanderers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.” or

    Jude 1:7 which says, “Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged in gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example, in undergoing punishment of eternal fire.”

    We have the answer for them-Jesus Christ. We are all born with a sinful nature! Jesus can forgive and transform. Jesus says, “neither do I condemn you, go and sin no more,”

    Paul told the Romans that “God will give them over to their depraved mind, to the sinful desires of their hearts, to the shameful lusts, because they are doing what ought not be done. (Romans 1:28).

    Our job is to be a light to shine in the darkness for anyone who wants to leave any sinful lifestyle. We are all in need of God’s mercy and grace.

    God Bless, Eva
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      CommentAuthorzobawm
    • CommentTimeNov 16th 2007
     
    anyone else?? please keep giving your comments, ideas and thoughts.

    Thank you, and God bless you all.
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    umm...me again but heres some more bible verses to go with wat i said

    GENESIS 1:27-28...." So God created man in his own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female he created them. God blessed them and said to them, " Be fruitful and increase in number;fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground.

    GENISIS 2:23-24...."The man said, "This is mow bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, for she was taken out of man. For the reason an man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
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      CommentAuthorzobawm
    • CommentTimeNov 23rd 2007
     
    I would like to thank you all for giving your views, comments and what God's will is upon man. The Bible says in..
    Genesis 1:27 God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.

    the bible also says.
    Jude 1:7 which says, “Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged in gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example, in undergoing punishment of eternal fire.”

    so after such a great law put infront of us we must not fall into temptation to break the law but follow his will. I would like everyone in this Forum to stand against this. Let's stop watching this hollywood movi "I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry". Let us all remember there is no compromise in the eye of God, he let us remember and never forget God is a clean God, without and compromise. Let this be our reminder that our God is a mercyful God but punishes those who disobey him mercilessly. Let you not forget that there is HELL which always opens its mouth for those who disobey God, and HEAVEN always there for his Sons. THERE IS NO COMPROMISE.
    • CommentAuthorRichie
    • CommentTimeDec 5th 2007
     
    I dont see why everyone has such a problem with gay people.. a lot of people are so against gay marraige but if it becomes accpeted. it doesnt mean that they have to marry another guy it just means that if a guy is gay and he wants to marry some other guy than he would be allowed to
    • CommentAuthorawayla
    • CommentTimeDec 6th 2007
     
    ya...i mean a lot of girls here r lezbian or bisexual...and everything....i know a lot of ppl who r...:D:D even though im not gay, or bi, POWER TO THEM!!
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      CommentAuthorzobawm
    • CommentTimeDec 7th 2007
     
    There is no compromise in God's living Word. If you're hot you must be hot, if you are cold you must be cold, if you continues to stay lukewarm God will spit you out of his mouth one day. no human being can go against the Will of the Living God. if they do so, they will be thrown into the lake of Fire where there is no end of pain and suffering, crying and nashing of teeth. Sodom & Gommorah, is a very good example in the Bible.
    • CommentAuthorTammy1
    • CommentTimeDec 13th 2007 edited
     
    Hi guys!
    I think Zobawm is right! The word of God is our guide in life and it speaks of homosexuality as a sin. It doesn't matter what the world says about it or what everyone else thinks, it only matters what God says coz it's His world and He makes the rules. If God says it's wrong then it must be wrong, firstly coz He didn't make man to be like that and secondly coz it goes against His word that says to go into the world and multiply. We don't hate the people but we hate the sin.

    Romans 1vs22-32 says "Claiming to be wise, they became fools; and they exchanged the glory of the imortal God for images resembling a mortal human being or birds or four footed animals or reptiles. Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity to the degrading of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen. For this reason God gave them up to dregrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and recieved in their own persons the due penalty for their error. And since they did not see fitt to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind and to things that should not be done. They were filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, covetousness malice." verse 32 says" They know God's decree, that those who practice these things deserve to die-yet they not only do them but even applaud others who practice them" You can start reading from verse 18 if you'd like, it give more understanding and clarity to read the whole thing.
    This is what the word of God says.....God is all powerful, all knowing, all seeing and more. If he says it's wrong then it must be wrong.
    • CommentAuthorRichie
    • CommentTimeDec 13th 2007
     
    yeah thats true.. but now they are saying that it is heredetary... can we blame them for something they were born with?
    • CommentAuthorawayla
    • CommentTimeDec 14th 2007
     
    no we cant...
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      CommentAuthorzobawm
    • CommentTimeDec 24th 2007
     
    sayings are of men so we must not accept this heredetary disease, it must not affect our lives. God want us to marry Man with a woman, woman with man so why should we break his law!!! that is why God made Adam and Eve as the first man and woman!! not the first man and man or the first woman and woman. as we see GOD made MAN and WOMAN. so there must not be accepted.
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    I believe that homosexuality is wrong. End of story. But also remember that Jesus forgave the man on the cross and the prostitute at the well, so we should accept them into our communities, witness to them, and let Him do the work in them.
    • CommentAuthorphenom2389
    • CommentTimeAug 17th 2008
     
    This is where I differ from most Catholics. I fully agree and acknowledge that homosexuality is a sin against God, but personally, I don't have a problem with it. I'm not gay or bi, but if someone is gay, bi, or a lesbian, I can't change that. I have no problem with homosexuality, even though the Catholic Church is strongly against it.
    • CommentAuthorEmi
    • CommentTimeAug 18th 2008
     
    I echo what aplologetiXFan said: "remember that Jesus forgave the man on the cross and the prostitute at the well, so we should accept them into our communities, witness to them, and let Him do the work in them."

    I believe homosexuality a sin. But so is telling lies.
    The main difference in my mind is that people tells lies by accident, you don't accidentally engage in a same-sex relationship.

    As for the issue of "hereditary homosexuality"...
    To put it frankly, i don't believe in it fully.
    Because of early childhood experiences one may DEVELOP a "leaning" towards seeking same-sex relationships.
    But i find it hard to believe that without ANY environmental factors influencing, one could be born with homosexual tendency.

    In saying that, it could be possible. I am not a psychologist- i only have a psychologist mother.

    But, even if it were (in some cases) hereditary, one can still abstain from ACTING upon it. And i believe God can also "heal" the tendency.

    But, despite it being a sin, it does not mean we ought to look down on them, or disclude them from coming to church. I believe the opposite.
    Jesus associated with the tax collectors; i can associate with the homosexuals.
    • CommentAuthorphenom2389
    • CommentTimeAug 18th 2008
     
    I couldn't agree more, Emi. That's kinda my stand on it.
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    I think Emi's got it right, "Because of early childhood experiences one may DEVELOP a "leaning" towards seeking same-sex relationships."
    I have a friend who is gay. She lost her mother to cancer when she was 7. She watched her mother die, literally. As a result, she suffers from depression and yearns greatly for motherly love. However, I think she mistook her need for motherly love as a need for /romantic/ love, and that is why she is gay. But I don't think this was a concious decision.
    • CommentAuthorEmi
    • CommentTimeAug 25th 2008
     
    I think you have hit the nail on the head (again) ApologetiXFan.
    It is that type of desire/need (which is fine in itself) that is sometimes projected onto other situations.

    I know the "desire" for a paternal-love from my own experiences, but i chose to direct it healthily & realised it for what it was.

    But, whatever the cause- don't forget to love them as any other person.
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    i feel my experience could add to this discussion.
    i went through a lot of sexual confusion in previous years( over it now, thank you Jesus) and the reasons were that at a young age, i was raped and molested, often daily, for about two years by two friends of my brothers. one of them, we had taken in and whenever no one was around, well....... and the other one would stay the night and sneak into my room. the thing that makes me wonder is that i'm pretty sure neither of them knew about the other. but anyway, i was afraid to tell because one had convinced me i would get into trouble( and the lie of the century award goes to...) and since that was the first experience i had i kind of leaned toward it, and it didn't help that my dad and my brother had rarely been there for me and i felt like i needed protecting, which supports ApolgetiXFan's idea, and i've heard of several situations similar to mine, but as soon as understood it wasn't my fault, most of it evaporated. the rest left when i learned not only can i protect myself, but i've also always got God's protection. and yes , i do think homosexuals should be excepted into society because we as christians are supposed to hate the sin and love the sinner. ditto to Emi. am i makin' any sense to anyone here?
    • CommentAuthorsparky
    • CommentTimeSep 28th 2008
     
    Hey richie, there is nothing that you are born with knowing. if you grew up with a mute family you wouldn't understand english. there is no one person who came out of womb hollering about the right to choose abortion. EVERYTHING about your person was NOT genetics. ALL THINGS IN YOUR LIFE ARE INFLUENCED BY EVERYTHING!! if you grew up with a gay uncle, you would not believe what homosexuals do is wrong because you were influenced by it growing up. if your parents smoked when you were a child, there is a 80% greater chance that you would be smoker too... NO ONE has EVER been born gay. it happens when they are influenced.
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      CommentAuthorzobawm
    • CommentTimeNov 18th 2008
     
    sparky that's right i'm 100% against this so call gay yag agy etc etc.
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    ok i'm going to say this now,
    the way you guys skitter around the rape like its a poisonous snake
    makes it a 1000 times worse than it already is.
    • CommentAuthorEmi
    • CommentTimeNov 26th 2008
     
    I'm not following you there, God'sperformer.
    Who's skittering around the rape?

    But i agree with you that people ignoring & not facing abuse makes it a million times worse, especially to the person who was the victim.
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      CommentAuthorzobawm
    • CommentTimeNov 30th 2008
     
    we christian have too much compassion !!! the compassion which God doesn't allow, i mean against God's compassion which is accepting everything as it comes, eg our topic. Gay Marriage...God never compromised with things which is against his Will. So these people will surely go go hell
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    Zobawm: I don't want to be rude, but saying things like that is the very thing that drives many, many people /away/ from Christ. I can't tell you how many times I've heard my friend Katelyn talk about all the people at school tell her she's going to hell so she'd better repent. That's not the reason we give our lives to Christ!! Our entire purpose on this earth is NOT to avoid going to Hell, because frankly, that's what we deserve. Our purpose is to bring glory to God with our lives. I'm not playing down the role Christ has as our Savior, and believe me I'm VERY thankful that He's saved us from eternal damnation [side note: I'm a moderate, neither Armenian nor Calvinist. But I strongly disagree with predestination], but our purpose is to spread the gospel first and foremost /to bring glory to God/. Our /second/ purpose is to save people from hell.

    But back to my point. The more and more I read and hear of people who are saved out of abusive circumstances, the more and more I believe that God works through LOVE. Love is /so powerful./ No one can disagree with unconditional love, and it turns heads. It makes people wonder what makes you so different and then they WANT that love. Love is like, it's like, I dunno, getting high on heroin or meth or something because it's SO ADDICTING. You can't walk away from it. If you go around telling people they're going to hell, they're gonna attach words to you such as hate, hypocrite, prejudice, shallow, and fake. Then they'll attach the same words to your god. In this case, the one and only God who is our Creator and deserves our lives and our praise. But if you speak through love, no, if you allow God to speak /through/ you in love, the results are /so much different./
    • CommentAuthorEmi
    • CommentTimeNov 30th 2008
     
    I don't think Christians who are gay will go to hell. I think they are sinning, and God desires them to stop & that if they do have a true relationship with God they would likely try to stop. Although, there are some churches who believe it is not sin, so they would not see a need to try and stop.

    But i think it is much like any other sin. I have lied in the past, i should (i.e. i deserve) to go to hell.
    Gay/lesbian have sinned. They deserve to go to hell.
    But Christ came & died that we may know God & His love, & be saved so we can spend eternity with Him if we choose.
    Conclusion: Gay Christians are like any other Christians. Saved with Jesus, not saved without Jesus.
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    Haha, listen to Emi, she makes a whole lot more sense than the rest of us XD
    • CommentAuthorEmi
    • CommentTimeDec 2nd 2008
     
    You make sense also AXF (that's what i'll call you for now, i hope you don't mind).
    I've learnt to use very-simple language, because it's what makes sense to my friends & me.
    • CommentAuthormattteaxe
    • CommentTimeDec 23rd 2008
     
    The previous posters may have stated some truth reguarding homosexuality, but they are missing one major point...
    The sin is in the action, not the thought!

    Many of us have predispositions to sin. Some have toughts of violence, some drinking, some gossiping, some pride, and some sexual sins. Having a tendency towards some sin is not wrong. It is the "sin that lives within us". The thing is that we do not have to act on it. We can look at it for what it is... a temptation and resist it. This sin is bad and just as bad as the others mentioned. But praise God, if we walk in the spirit, we will not fulfill the lust of the flesh (Romans)
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    Hmm... I slightly disargree there mattteaxe.
    Oftentimes I believe the sin is in the thought.
    We can't control our initial thoughts, but we can control what we do with them.
    Thus if we have a nasty thought and we do not stop ourselves from continuing to have that thought, then we are sinning.
    Though in a way that /is/ an action.
    So I suppose we're on the same page.
    Just clarifyin ;]
    • CommentAuthorEmi
    • CommentTimeDec 24th 2008
     
    I think you both have a good point.
    In some cases, the thought isn't the sin, the action is. But in other times, the thought is just as much the sin.

    If someone has a homosexual desire, but does not act on it, i greatly respect that & they are honouring God. And i do not think of it as sin; or not as this point.

    However, Jesus said about Adultery of the mind.
    You can sleep with someone else's wife/husband; or you can fantasise about it.
    Both are sin.

    Although, i think if a homosexual fantasises about another male, even without doing anything with them, it is sin.

    I suppose the fantasising IS an action.
    It's how far the thought goes & what you do with it...
    • CommentAuthorRichie
    • CommentTimeJan 28th 2009
     
    sparky i completely agree with you. I dont think anyting besides the color of my hair, eyes, etc are heredetary. I would hate to think that i could be something against God because of something in my DNA, its stupid, arrogant, and completely ignorant.
    Now from that, whats all this about skittering around rape??
    • CommentAuthor1_4_GOD
    • CommentTimeMar 5th 2009 edited
     
    Homosexuallity is wrong and a sin just as much as lieing, or drinking too much.

    no sin is greater than another in the sight of God. think about the sins you remember that you have comitted today, none of those are greater than the sin o being gay to God.

    Sin is anything you think say or do that displeases God. I strongly believe that and will stand by it.

    my youth pastor told me about a conversation he had with someone: Can an alcholic go to heaven? yes was his reply
    Can a person who is gay go to heaven? no was his answer
    What's the difference? he had no reply to this, but being embarrased, and totaly repenting to God about his wrong aditude twards them,

    What Is The Difference?

    I have two friends as of now who are gay, one of them has not 'come out of the closset' and one has, am i to just leve them hainging there or let them drown in their sin? no I will not! I will stand by them and be their light to get out of this situation,

    'All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God'

    'For by Grace you have been saved, and this not of yourselves, but it is the gift of God,...'

    'there is no temptation that has overtaken you, but shuch as is common to man, but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted beyond whar you are able but also maketh a way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.'

    it is the same God we all worship. It is the same God that has saved us by His blood, why should He not do it for them? Are we than amitting that we are better than them, and that our sins are not as bad compared to them. I will be the first to admit that i have sinned today, and I will also be the first to repent of my sins, and ask God to forgive me for thinking the wrong thought, or saying that little wite lie, but i will also be the first to admit that the God of me is the same God of Abrahem, Issac, and Jacob, and that If he can save a wretch like me he can sertanaly save a sinner like them.

    Do they need forgiveness? yes they do, but it is not just mine they need, But to ask for themselvs the forgiveness of the almighty God of creation, and of the savior of all of our sins. They can go to heaven, they need it just as much as we do, but who are we to stand in their way and refuse them the gift which was so freely given to us, the gift of salvation, grace and mercy, we all deserve it, and I will not stand in their way, I will hand them the life raft, and clear my heart so that God can use me to reach them, and that He will work through me, to accomplish His Will.

    i'm out of time right now, sorry if i sounded so forcefull, and i will hopefully post latter

    1_4_GOD
    • CommentAuthorawayla
    • CommentTimeMar 25th 2009
     
    being gay is not hereditary. as it says in the bible, god doesnt like it. its not good for people to like it, or guys to like seeing lesbians "going at it" in some words.
    • CommentAuthoribnfound
    • CommentTimeJul 15th 2009
     
    We're taught that man evolved from single cells, worked upwards to simple creatures then advanced to crawl onto land. Somewhere from the crawling stages the adaptations grew hair, formed bone structures simular to humans and created malls with multiplex theaters. Now, if homosexuality were hereditary, then it only stands to reason that our world would have fewer, then no human beings.

    The media is pushing this agenda, as are the unions associated with schools because there is money behind it. Tons of money backed a lethargic group of Episcopalians and planned well to start this thing rolling. Tons of money is dropped in place to support the Gay Pride parade in San Diego, yet nothing is ever showed publically regarding the real trash during the parade itsself. The Padres hold a Gay pride game, last year it was at the same time as the most popular give a hat away game where many unsuspecting parents took their children.

    My biggest problem with churches making the mistake of putting homosexuals in leadership positions is that an unbiased opinion is nearly imposible, especially if someone young is struggling. San Diego streets are filled with homeless, but shockingly, the last five years or so, there are more run aways whom are male prostitutes.

    I have three relatives whom practice a homosexual lifestyle; I dearly love them all. All became sexually active not because they were attracted first because they were the same sex, but because their partners were strong willed, and already practiced homosexual lifestyles. Like a hetrosexual lifestyle, they thought this experience would lead to a stronger relationship/bond. But truth is, they weren't ready for a physical relationship to start with, were vulnerable, looking for companionship. In todays society, what used to be considered normal friendship behavior (holding hands, hugging) between same sexes is blown out of proportions and leads to whispers about confused sexuality must mean other options. So wrong.

    Alcoholism is a desease. It can be treated, if the person wants help. Pastor's can be alcoholics, but are usually asked to step down because they cannot effective lead a flock. Homosexuality is a life-choice. If active, then they should not be in a leadership position, because they cannot lead the flock.

    Can an alcoholic, a homosexual, a prostitute, a murderer, an abuser, a budda worshiper go to heaven? If they repent...
    • CommentAuthoribnfound
    • CommentTimeJul 16th 2009
     
    Even while the Episcopal denomination was supposed to be working with the Anglican church on issues ranging from same-sex marriage, they've thumbed their noses by looking for loopholes and marrying them anyway. End result is that if same sex marriages are legalized, then ALL churches whom stand on Biblical standards are in jeopardy. This also means that the government can dictate what can and cannot be shared either as a sermon, in Bible studies, or even allowed to stand as meant to be in written text in the Bible. In Germany, in England, there are documented cases where parents whom choose to pull their children from public schools (hometeach) have been slapped with severe fines, been told their children may be taken from them and placed in foster care because they dare to teach them what the Bible reads as viable even for today.

    Think this can't happen in America? Homebased classes aren't immune to this either. In the public schools here, kids are being indoctrinated to believe this is true and natural as young as the third grade. Teachers are being strongarmed by the union to stand behind them on all transgender/homosexual issues, including celebrating, with posters and a party. With peer pressure being what it is with students, its no surprize that anyone with an opposing view keeps quiet. After all, its far from 'cool' and an official stamp of being classified as a major dork to suggest there's anything morally wrong with this.

    But I think that Christians have to take a lot of blame for this; for years many have either blatently ignored it, refused to get involved in schools, refused to get involved by demanding the media, as a whole stand accountable for their portions of actions. Instead, we all rolled our eyes when kids brought home calendars from the PTA, didn't listen to our children REALLY talk about in school, didn't show up in school offices demanding answers, refused to communicate with school board members, go to the trouble of making the school board members work for the good of our children, OR even volunteer to critique/read books that were being considered as learning materials for classwork (which you can do, contact your local school board office). Instead, we let the schools, the TV, movies dictate.

    I started studying Greek because I wanted to take Bible translations back to their basic. Not to depend on others oppinions, or even a higher count of same-translations according to verse. It's too easy to get caught up in that by using empathy as a meter in translating. Trouble is, that isn't always dependable and changes by influence. But God's Word never changes. He doesn't contradict, He always has us in mind, especially when we don't have all the information. Do a computer search on the Bible and science, and there's so many things that DON'T run contrary, in spite of what many people try to push.

    Yet where does one go when the world pushes from every direction?

    Yet, at the same time, kids are mocked, teased if they try to stand up. If they choose to go public regarding Promise Rings. They're told they can't wear crosses in public schools, if they disagree with choices on birth control excluding abstanance. You can't tell me this wouldn't change if parents really got involved instead of shaking their heads and/or insist they're doing the best of what they can, praying. Using the Bible as an example, prayer is important, but it would sure be a heck of a lot shorter book if the person praying simply left it at that.

    Praise God if you have family/friends whom are homosexual or believe that this is ok. You may be the only influence they have. Love them. Don't preach to them. They already know how you feel, right? Trust God in the timing, do your homework and be there for them without compromising your beliefs. THIS more than anything may open the door.
    • CommentAuthorpartypipz
    • CommentTimeAug 15th 2009
     
    It's a sin no matter what/where angle will you looked. And I don't like gays either. I... I just don't like the idea....
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      CommentAuthorgemreplica
    • CommentTimeOct 21st 2009
     
    I don't think the Christian can not accept guy marriage. it is ok for me, I am not guy, but I accept it, I admire their courage.
    Not everyone has the courage to say love the the one they fall in live with, especially the guy, I respect everyone who live with their true heart.
    it is ok if they live happy, the god hope we find a peace place for our heart.
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    • CommentAuthorRichie
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2009
     
    As of right now I agree with gemreplica..
    My brother is gay, and I have a lot of respect for my brother. Ive come to the opinion that christianity is the greatest cause of athiesm. Christians aknowledge Christ with their lips, but walk out the door and Deny Him by their lifestyle.. Most of the Christians Ive met are fake. My brother is gay, and he is real and stand up for what he believes in.. Who shows a more powerful example of character and honesty??